The week starting 28th February was mainly occupied by plunging into the world of 介護 (
kaigo - care work), centring around an afternoon spent volunteering at a day centre (I think that's the term I want, not "Old Folks' Home" as they weren't in residence there) in the company of folks of advanced years. Why? The previous week we'd been introduced to articles and reading materials about the
Koureika (see previous entries) phenomenon, as well as Japan's welfare system, or lack thereof in some cases, but more on that later. In any case, I suppose this volunteer activity can be seen as a way of supplementing this knowledge with a bit of real-life experience. It's also been one of those lovely unique experiences with which study abroad is supposedly littered.
On Monday we were divided into groups and briefed on how to get to our assigned day centre and the proposed schedule. Tuesday we got off, supposedly for mental preparation or some such. Then finally Wednesday dawned - the real thing! I'd been a little nervous at first, as I always am when meeting new people, but I was able to rationalise away most of my fears - after all, I'd be there with classmates and hopefully we could cover for each other if there were moments of hesitation or misunderstanding. I also knew I'd have
something to say just at first, for we'd each prepared a little presentation about our countries, so even as I walked to the centre with my classmates I was rehearsing explanations of scones, Stonehenge and London lifestyle in my head.
All in all I think it went rather well. The folks were all gathered together in one room, so waiting to meet them felt like being backstage before a show. We came on, did self-introductions, then launched into presentations, in the order Vietnam, China, England and Hawaii. It was quite interesting to see which aspects of their countries everyone chose to play up and which pictures they used, though I'm very relieved that Hawaii was the finalé. With its gorgeous scenery and popularity as a holiday destination for retired persons, it would have been a difficult act to follow.
After the presentations a visitor not affiliated with us led a Yoga session. Now, I've done a bit o' Yoga in my time... by which I mean I've watched videos and noticed my mother doing it, so I have a fairly clear idea of how it should look. This version had obviously been adapted so that even people whose bodies were in a state of ill repair could participate, for it was entirely conducted from the sitting position. By which I mean while sat on chairs, not 正座(
seiza), the traditional formal way of sitting. Some stretching of limbs and deep breathing later we moved on to the final section of the day - a casual chat and a cup of tea!
This was a lot more fun than I had expected – no dodgy ancient dialects or distrust of foreigners for one thing, and I found I wasn’t strapped for conversation subjects, either. The folks were quite eager to hear what I could tell them about England, and to tell me their own experiences, for some of them had visited or had children living abroad. It turns out sometimes you can be interesting just by being foreign. I mean, being yourself. Moreover, an ice-breaking question that often comes up in Japan is “What is your hobby?” and recently I’ve found that answering “Collecting hats” opens up all kinds of avenues of conversation.
Before long it was time for everyone to head back to their respective abodes. Even at the best of times talking to new people is one of my major weak points, especially if they’re considerably younger or older than me. But I think this visit has helped dispel some of the fears connected with such situations – after all, if I can chat to folk in Japanese, doing so in English should be a breeze!
Regrettably I must end this entry on a pensive note, for it occurs to me that there must be a fair few people like the ones I met who aren’t as well provided for. In Japan there’s an attitude that it should be the family’s responsibility to take care of the elderly. Sounds good from a cultural point of view, but the pressure it puts on people and the assumption that everyone will have a complete family unit makes it a tad impractical as a governmental policy. Still, if articles dealing with issues like this are being reprinted in textbooks, it may be that things are changing. Let’s hope so.